Your first meeting with a financial adviser sets the tone for your entire relationship. Preparation pays off. Come with a clear picture of your finances and your goals.

Do gather your financial documents before arriving. Bring bank statements, investment account summaries, tax returns, mortgage papers, insurance policies, and any outstanding debts. This saves time and shows the adviser what you're working with. Advisers respect clients who come prepared.

Do ask about their credentials. Look for CFP (Certified Financial Planner) designation or similar certifications. Ask whether they're a fiduciary, meaning they're legally required to act in your best interest. Non-fiduciaries only need to recommend "suitable" investments, which is a lower standard.

Do clarify how they charge. Fee-only advisers charge flat fees, hourly rates, or a percentage of assets under management. Commission-based advisers earn money when you buy products. Hybrid models combine both. Fee-only typically reduces conflicts of interest, but understand your adviser's compensation model before signing on.

Don't go in unprepared. Vague goals like "get richer" waste everyone's time. Instead, articulate specific targets. Do you need $2 million for retirement in 20 years? Are you saving for a home down payment? Is your child's college fund the priority?

Don't hire an adviser just because they manage your cousin's money. Your financial situation differs from everyone else's. Interview multiple advisers before committing.

Don't avoid asking tough questions. What's their investment philosophy? How do they handle market downturns? What's their average client's age and net worth? If they dodge questions, that's a red flag.

Don't forget to ask about their track record with clients like you. Someone skilled with high-net-worth retirees may not fit your needs as a young professional building wealth